Through my most recent experience with a man, I have now come to believe the one thing most women are in denial about: "All Men Cheat". Now you might think I'm overreacting. But I have facts to back it up. I have not come across one man who does not cheat! NOT ONE! It is strange really. The men in my family, the male friends, the boyfriends. Maybe one of you in denial who is reading this is thinking "You just haven't met the right sort of men". Not true. I have met all kinds of men- straight, gay, rich, not-so-rich, smart, dolts, some even great men.
Men have it wired into their DNAs. They just need to sink their teeth in the neighbour's Creme Brulee. They have to touch (and quite necessarily sleep with) everything they see. Don't get me wrong. I'm not saying that there might not be that rare exception to this rule, but you will find that those are few and far apart.
As a close friend of mine told me once, "Kanika, it's not like I enjoy causing the heartache. I just need a change!" Change, testing waters, or just high levels of testosterone, it feels like the women are getting the shit end of the deal. Mostly, anyway.
Besides, I was reading this on the internet. It was supposed to be a "Fun and Interesting Fact"- "3% of all mammals are monogamous". Who's to say that humans are included within the 3%? (Not to sound ultra-feminist) Men or women? What can anyone do to live a happy life filled with love?
The answer would be either of the two: Live in Denial. Or accept that "All Men Cheat". The only difference would be the time within which the only consequence would be realized, i.e. heartache.
